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Posted on
2021-11-23 07:41:29

This is an official clan thread for the Confused Gender Clan!

Welcome to the thread. This thread is that of the clan called 'Confused Gender'
This clan is a safe place for those on Lioden who do not consider themselves as cis.
Its also a safe place for other LGBTQIA+ community.

Rules:
1. When you join, introduce yourself, you can include your gender identity, your preferred pronouns, and if you are comfortable you can share your sexuality and/or a little bit about yourself.
2. Do not dismiss anyone’s identity or pronouns
3. Respect people’s pronouns, always
4. Don’t be rude to each other
5. Be kind
6. If someone asks for help, try your best to help them and to not ridicule them



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Posted on
2022-04-16 10:49:18
Welcome lune, what sort of poetry do you usually write?



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Lune
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Posted on
2022-04-16 11:06:33
Usually quite depressing poetry, I am going through a rough time at the moment



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Posted on
2022-04-16 11:07:53
That’s alright, I hope it gets better for you.

If your comfortable with sharing I think there will be those who can offer advice, encouragement or what else you need



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Lune
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Posted on
2022-04-16 13:22:04
Thanks,

No one will use my name or pronouns, and I am sure you guys know that most how that can just be annoying. I have anxiety and depression so it's been a spiralling path to su!side thoughts



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2022-04-17 22:49:05
thats awful to hear, i hope you get a support group to help
have you tried and mention it to the people in your life about using the correct name and pronouns? if you have and they still do it on purpose im so sorry, i do know that everyone here will respect your chosen name and your pronouns

i think if your name and pronouns start to get use it should help with your mental health, are you receiving therapy to help?

if your not comfortable to answer some questions thats fine and understandable



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Posted on
2022-04-18 00:02:43
I have asked about five times in a sit down conversation of please use my pronouns. They have known about them for long enough to at least try.
I am receiving a bit of therapy but it's not helping much. It's all a bit overwhelming really



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Posted on
2022-04-18 12:39:34
thats awful to hear that they're still disrespecting you
do you roughly know why your therapy isn't helping as much as it could? is it cause the therapist is hard to get get along with or something else?


I'm going to say now, that i'm not sure on what else i can say to help, i wish i can help you get out of this tough time; although i can get that mental health have fluatations, and its is perfectly understandable to have those harder days
on these harder days, it's alright not to be able to everything you think you should be doing that day, sometimes its better for you to just do nothing until you can mental can do

sorry if this doesnt help much, i do hope things get better soon, just know that you can PM me if you need to rant about anything; this applies to anyone in the clan



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Posted on
2022-04-18 12:44:28
Thanks. It's the time really. I get a certain amount of time but it isn't that much and they expect all of my problems to just fade away. And it's just a bit crap really



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2022-04-18 12:46:04
Ah, that wouldnt help much, hopefully things do ease up for you



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Posted on
2022-04-18 12:47:24
Yeah. And I am rethinking my sexuality as well lol



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Posted on
2022-04-18 12:49:23
that can take your mind off things quickly, hopefully you can figure it out soon



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Posted on
2022-04-18 13:09:03
I need a hand with what is under the umbrella of non binary as I want a more certain label



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Posted on
2022-04-18 13:11:09
I'm not much of an expert within this area myself, there are many different labels, many are dependant on how you feel, if you want you can describe how you view yourself and this might help you into finding a more fitting label?



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Posted on
2022-04-18 13:17:51
heloo! im violet! im xe/xim and it/its! im pansexual! i love to draw eat, and sleep! id love to meet yall!



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Posted on
2022-04-18 13:26:52
Welcome violet, great to meet you too, what sort of things do you like to draw?



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