TW for violence and sexual themes(?) and mental health




Alright so i have this close friend of mine and i love him a lot, but my love is slowly draining and becoming less and less the more he does. After talking to him i am exhausted, it feels refreshing to get off the phone with him or leave his house. This is already a sign, to me, the friendship is failing.

Anyways, this guy has done some wild things! In class, he constantly hits me. He will hit me over a joke, if i jokingly grab a piece of gum he will physically grab me and drag me when i pull away because i already don’t like being touched. He steals my stuff all the time and doesn’t listen when i tell him to give it back, he’s done this with my phone before. He treats his cat horribly, using her for a towel for chocolate milk at one point (flipped her on her back and dragged her across the spill while she struggled). He judges people all the time for no reason and talks shit constantly. He body shames people too, when he himself has no room to talk, but in my opinion that doesn’t even matter!

He is nasty to me a lot when it comes to not being readily available to talk to him. He complains about everything to me and interrupts my time to myself and then makes me feel bad about not answering his calls. He gaslights me and guilt trips me all the time. He once blocked me on snap for a month in spite of one small mishap.

He has made fun of my eating disorder, and said i was the “most suicidal one” in our friend group, which really rubbed me the wrong way. I’ve told him many times to stop, and after months it’s BARELY died down.

He talks about sexual things with me all the time and asks me odd questions that make me uncomfortable and i don’t know what to say to them. He constantly embarrasses me in front of others by saying crude things. I’ll think of more later and edit this, but i lowk need advice. I’m neurodivergent and have a very hard time breaking off friendships.

EDIT: he also calls me stupid all the time because i have 90-97s in all my classes and not A+’s (he has Bs and Cs). He knocks me down in my highs constantly and comments about my appearance all the time. I told him i got a super high score on my PSAT and he called it mediocre (i’m 98% percentile nationally). He’s also made jokes about me being sexually assaulted in the past.