So as of now if your message recipient can delete the message you've sent from their inbox, and it will be gone from your outbox, no trace. This is problematic for many reasons - i've had a commissioner delete messages i've sent them to act like it never happened, and while my memory is perfectly fine it DOES make me doubt myself. It's extremely clumsy to have to screencap every message bc the recipient can control your outbox. Can we please have the message stay in your outbox?